I finally understand. I understand what it feels like to completely not understand.
From December 27th through January 8th I had the incredible opportunity to travel and see some of the world. Backpacking around in Europe for two weeks was an eye opening experience for me. I bought my plane ticket to Germany prior to leaving, but other than that I did no planning whatsoever until I got there. I learned a lot about other cultures and myself. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done yet one of the best.
During my trip I got to visit France, Spain, Germany; all wonderful countries with their own set of social norms and customs. While visiting all of these countries the language barrier was very difficult for me. I am only proficient in English and my Spanish is definitely not up to par. I had to find my way on buses, trains, airplanes, and though entire cities using the “nodding, pointing, and smiling” technique. It made traveling very stressful at times because of not being able to navigate through different cities easily. Even with my lack of knowledge of the language, I found people to be so incredibly helpful. I had complete strangers walk me places to show me how to get there, write me maps, or sit down with me and help me plan out where to go.
In the past, I had never thought about how difficult it must be for those not born in the United Sates to live in our country and not be able to understand. I’m guilty of having not enough patience and regret not taking more time to help those who weren’t at my same level of comprehension. I now completely understand what it feels like to not be able to understand – and it’s not exactly a feeling I would wish upon others. I’m glad to have realized this so in the future I will be more understanding and helpful to others.
Even though I had no major problems, I did run into a few roadblocks. Hostels being full, getting very lost, and a case of food poisoning all happened at one point but were all fixable problems. If something doesn’t happen as planned there is always a way to fix it – some solutions were more costly than others but all in all, were not enough to make a trip turn sour.
During the trip, I tried CouchSurfing for the first time. For three days of the trip, I stayed with a host from a different country – complete strangers I had found through the website. It allowed me to bring my guard down for a bit and be more open and trusting towards other people. The news always brings the worse case scenarios up. No, I didn’t get robbed, raped, or stabbed – I had an incredible experience and would definitely recommend it to everyone I know. My hosts were wonderful, helpful, and made me feel right at home. In addition to using Couchsufing to find a place to stay, I met up with a few people who offered to show me around. Traveling alone can sometimes be lonely and it was so awesome to find people willing to met up and show me the sights. Even though traveling alone was sometimes stressful, it enabled me to meet more people I wouldn’t have otherwise.
I learned a lot about myself during the course of two weeks. If I can go to three entirely different countries in two weeks by myself, navigate and find my way around alone, and fund the trip with my savings – I can pretty much do anything I set my mind to. I’ve had so many people tell me “oh I could never do that” but in reality, yes you could. You don’t know what you are capable of unless you try. For giving up your latte a day, you could fund a trip in less than a year. For anyone wanting to travel, but putting it off because “you don’t have enough money” – there is always a way to fund anything if you put your mind to it and cut back on other expenses. I’m a broke college student, and am by no means rolling in it. If I can do it, so can you!
Even though I had a great time traveling I am glad to be back in Seattle. I’ve never loved living in another city more and am so glad to know the great community of people that I do.
Highlights of the trip:
- Spending New Years Eve in Paris, France with a wonderful group of people from all over
- Walking on the beach in Cadiz, Spain
- Learning “Que Cono!” y “Es de puta madre!” from my amigo.
- Drinking in the street with Omid.
- Getting to see all of the products we don’t have in the US.
- Seeing all of the different kinds of marketing.
- Checking out the differences in stores. (can you tell i love marketing?)
- Eating Kebobs – best food ever.
- Riding the train from Paris to Frankfurt
- Not hearing anyone talk about social media.
- Eating French food.
- Eating Spanish food.
- Eating German food.
- Being legal to drink.
Playlist of my trip:
Voxtrot, Buddy Holly, Mika, Niel Diamond, Vampire Weekend, Arctic Monkeys, Cake
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